Monday, May 28, 2012

Heroes of All Sorts

This Memorial Day, I'm thinking about a few of the heroes in my life.  I have many uncles who served in various branches of the military.  My own father was a Corpsman in the Navy, and completed two tours in the Pacific Theater in WWII. (If you don't know what a corpsman it....these guys are every soldiers hero on the battlefield.)  My father-in-law served in the war in Korea.  He was a Lineman....I can't imagine climbing up on a telephone pole in a war zone.  I wonder how many snipers had him in their gun sights.  That kind of bravery deserves some serious respect.  I have a treasured nephew in the army who has a lovely wife and 3 beautiful small children he leaves behind every time he goes overseas.  I don't know how he does it, but I'm proud and grateful for his service.  I have another nephew Jacob, who is a Marine.

Check out this's one of my favorites:
The young Marine on the left is my nephew Jacob.  He is my hero in so many ways, for so many reasons.  The young man on the  right, is his brother, my other nephew Ben.  He's a different kind of hero, who fought a different kind of battle.  He is very sadly no longer with us, but he was an organ donor and so, unknowingly a hero to many who will never know the wonderful young man that he was.  Ben was so proud of his brother's service.
Here is another picture from that day:
What a fine pair of heroes.

This is my sister Jennifer, mother to both:
I know you can't see her very well in this picture, but I love it anyway.  I know that on this day her range of emotion was off the charts.  I can't imagine.  Jennifer is a hero too.  All military mothers are.

This is Jacobs wife Kelsey:
I can't even begin to imagine how proud she is and how she must have worried when Jacob was in Afghanistan.  She is an amazing woman in her own right.  All military wives are courageous heroes.
Here is a picture of them together at the Marine Ball:

This is my brother-in-law Mike, father to both:
He is at the Vietnam War Memorial in Washington, DC.  It was his dream to go there.  I don't think that I know of anyone who has greater respect for ALL of the men who have served our country and fought and died for our freedom.  His knowledge and enthusiasm of military history is vast and his respect for those who serve and have served is limitless.  I know that he is proud of his Marine son.  I also know that he is aware of the danger that his only surviving son faces.  Mike is a hero too.  All military fathers are.
I am proud of this family and the bravery of each and every one of them.  They have all fought battles of different kinds.  Not all of the battles were won.  Some are over, some will never be.  They are heroes to me each and every day.  I love them and I'm grateful for them....each and every day.
Thank you for your service Jacob. I love you. You are my hero for so many reasons!  You were training for it at an early age:

Thank you Mike and Jen.  Your sacrifices and patriotism are beyond words. I love you both. You are my heroes.
Thank you Ben...your organ donations were honorable sacrifices, your bravery was amazing in the face of a battle so unfathomable.  I am so sorry that you lost.  You are a hero in my book any day.  You are loved and missed by so many on this Memorial Day.



  1. What a sweet post, Danni. I have so much respect for people who join the military. It's such a sacrifice!!

  2. What a stunning post Danni xxx Nat

  3. Fabulous post, Danni. Made me definitely teary at this end.

  4. Danni,

    What a beautiful and moving post, and a lovely tribute to your family and all who serve or have served our country in the military. They are all heros, as are their families. I am sorry to hear about your nephew Ben losing his battle, organ donation is certainly its own kind of battle and I am sure he made everyone proud of how well he fought! May God bless them all, and you too sweet Danni, and may we always remember their sacrifice for us with gratitude and praise.

  5. Lovely Danni, what a wonderful post that is!!! You are a hero too for being grateful and thoughtful and loving and courageous!
    big hug to you

  6. A very inspirational post for Memorial Day! You have captured it's essence quite well. I loved this! Your nephews and family sound amazing. HUGS!